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M. T. (37 years, male)
"As a young man, I used to read a lot about
different cultures and about the way their members make love. I didn't
attach any great significance to it then, because it was not in
accordance with what I was taught, and I didn't consider it to be good
for me. I thought, only they can make love in such a way. I continued
doing it in a classical way, I ejaculated. There were moments when I was
so exhausted and without energy, that I wasn't able to do anything. I
needed time to regenerate, and to regain life energy. My partner was not
satisfied, because after lovemaking I wasn't able to communicate, nor
anything else.
I was thinking about that problem, and wanted to solve
it. I came to know about the Tantra seminar, and attended one, together
with my partner. Everything has changed after that, our relationship has
become better, we make love more often. I don't feel so exhausted and
without life energy. It has changed because I don't ejaculate any more,
so that I don't waste life energy, but energy remains in the body and
grows. These are very simple techniques, easy to learn and apply, and
the result is a wonderful feeling of satisfaction and fullness of life
energy. After such a love making I feel rested relaxed and full of
energy. Both my partner and I feel happier and more satisfied."
K. G. (32 years, female)
"I had my first sexual experience when I was 18. It
was interesting and nice at the beginning, but when the curiosity was
satisfied, I realized it was a very dangerous entertainment, because of
the possibility of pregnancy, and without giving me anything special. I
even felt abused. I lived without a partner during the next several
years, because I found it impossible to reconcile the need for spiritual
development with living together with somebody, and it seemed to me that
a woman in such a relationship totally suffers a loss. Tantra sex offers
something entirely new that cannot be realized through the classical
sex. It is not "just a technique", but the life is being
raised to a higher level, and the emotional relationship is deepening. I
went also through the period of classical sex, with my present partner,
with all those states of abstinence, which create tension and
depression, and with another kind of depression - after sex. Only when
we started practicing Tantra sex we felt that something was happening.
The experiences became much subtler, like in meditation. I feel
awakening of chakras; the genital chakra and the heart chakra begin to
react in rhythm and to melt together. Sometimes I feel the flow of Soma
nectar overwhelming my head, and the powerful energy flow in the crown
chakra. A great feeling of bliss follows the contractions of the vagina
muscle and by mental "seeing" of colors, which is actually the
experience of all the senses. Making love in a Tantra way is a profound
spiritual experience. The corporal feeling is no longer the goal of
itself, but it leads to the refined states of consciousness, to the more
refined breathing and vibrating in the common rhythm, to the flood of
bliss and light, feeling of the tiny impulses of the body which give
rise to the ecstasy in the heart and mind. Owing to the special
exercises for women, the purpose of which is regulating the
menstruation, I didn't feel any more, discomfort about it. The
consequences are fantastic. There is no more painful energy loss and
weakness. My blood is improved, and the need for taking food supplements
is lessened. I think that Tantra is necessary to all the people involved
in spiritual development that doesn't want to live in celibacy. Since I
was in celibacy for a long time (8 years), I know that it can create a
lot of tension, and even jeopardize the very spiritual progress made by
yoga and meditation. Tantra sex can never become a routine, neither can
it be done with half attention. A very intimate co-operation between
partners is necessary, because the process is very delicate and subtle
like "walking on the knife's edge". The process develops
intuition and intimacy. Since I started practicing Tantra exercises for
women, I often have a spontaneous "cosmic orgasm" outside the
sexual intercourse. Another great advantage of Tantra sex is losing fear
from undesired pregnancy. When the man completely gains mastery over
ejaculation, this great inhibition, which hinders a complete enjoyment
in sex and orgasm, disappears."
I. K. (28 years, female)
"I was unhappy from the very beginning of my sexual
life because I was never able to have an orgasm. My present boyfriend
was patient and kind, but with the time he became bored, because it
seemed to him that all the efforts with me were in vain. I was afraid he
was going to leave me because of that. When I came to know about Tantra,
I thought it could help me. Still, I needed a lot of courage to decide
to attend the course. I was persuading my boyfriend to go together with
me. He resisted a lot in the beginning. He let me go, but he said he
couldn't learn anything there. At last he agreed. The attendance of the
seminar has disburdened me greatly, and has changed my attitude towards
sexuality. I was out of myself and very happy when, after only a few
weeks of practicing the exercises I learned there, I had my first
orgasm. But my enthusiasm was still greater, when shortly after that, I
felt this orgasm in all the body. Now I constantly have wonderful and
always new experiences in my love life, and the relationship with my
boyfriend is stronger and stronger. I must recognize he also contributed
a lot, because with the exercises he got on the seminar, he manages to
keep the erection much longer, so that I can relax more deeply."
M. C. (22 years, female)
"I have always had very painful menstruation.
Already a few days before I would become irritated, and I had to be
lying in bed almost all the time during the days of bleeding. I heard
that on Tantra seminars some exercises are being given, which should
eliminate those problems, so I decided to see what it is about. I
doubted a little that my long-standing problems could be solved in such
an easy way. But since it didn't take much time, I decided to try, and
diligently performed every day the exercises I've learned. I was
pleasantly surprised when after three weeks I realized that the period
was approaching, but the habitual irritability was not there. During
bleeding I was still felling some weakness, but there were no pains. I
was delighted with the results. Unfortunately, during the next days I
neglected the exercises, and the usual unpleasant symptoms appeared
again. That's how I was convinced that it is something serious. Now I
practice regularly a few minutes in the morning and in the evening. I
have no more problems with menstruation. In the days of bleeding I feel
as well as usually."
K. J. (38 years, male)
"I have always had problems with the premature
ejaculation. After getting married, I devoted myself to the job so much
that I didn't have much time for my wife and children. During the last
few years we didn't make love at all. Only when my wife left me and took
the children with her, I realized that something was wrong. I had
remorse that I never gave her enough in sex, and that she has found a
better man. With the Tantra exercises I managed to master my
ejaculation, so that it's not a reflex act anymore. I feel more self
confidence in contact with women, and in life generally."
L. S. (33 years, female)
"I have been practicing Tantra sex with my husband
for about two years, and now I can say that it was really worth time. He
initiated this great change in our love life, because he was always
unsatisfied with sex. During this time he changed marvelously: out of a
tense and an ill-humored man, he became such a tender and shining
personality, that it's a real pleasure to watch him after Tantra! Now he
pays much more attention to me, and it seems to me that he always
desires me - which is a wonderful feeling! I am not so diligent in
individual exercises, I perform only those that are to be done during
the sexual intercourse. Before, I was so much afraid of becoming
pregnant that the sexual intercourse was a real hell to me, far from a
pleasure! Now, this nightmare is over, because there is no such a good
contraception, as the one that could be created by our own body, by
means of Tantra exercises."
V. L. (35 years, female)
"Before getting married, we were terrific in love.
Our sexual life was fantastic. But the worries of marriage, children,
job, all that has as if gradually killed in us the desire for pleasure.
We made love more and more rarely, and it was far from those youth's
ecstasies. I asked myself if it really had to be so. Finally even living
together was endangered. Our children hold us together. My friend was
persuading me to attend the Tantra seminar, and said that it could save
my marriage. I decided to go, out of pure curiosity, but it didn't cross
my mind to persuade my husband to go with me. The seminar opened plenty
of new ideas and understandings to me, about how a high-quality sex
influences the quality of the whole life. I understood why our love with
years weakened instead of growing."
M. K. (55 years, male)
"During the last 7 years my potency weakened
greatly. Although the desire was strong, erection would be completely
absent. I became depressed and withdrawn. The relationship to my wife is
good in other respects, and that's what hold us still together, but
patience has an end. Besides, my wife was growing livelier and more
demanding, and I - to the contrary. When she proposed me to go to the
consultation, I knew I had no more choice. It was not easy to me to
expose this problem in front of others, and I am not used to talk openly
about these things. When we came to the consultation, it was difficult
for me to recognize what tormented me. I was pleased, because in the
conversation soon everything seemed quite normal. I left him in a much
better mood and started applying the given instructions and exercises.
It was unusual to practice "having it stiff", and in the next
few days I noticed that my attitudes towards sexuality have greatly
changed. After some days I applied a special dietary procedure following
instructions. Next day I was beside myself in ecstasy. After seven years
it "stood" again. I hurried to use it, forgetting the advised
caution. That's why the next day a disappointment awaited me again. But
I went on practicing diligently and following all the instructions more
attentively. "The thing" stabilized after several weeks, to
enormous pleasure of my wife and myself. I still have to take care how I
behave in the intercourse, and to devote some time to the exercises, but
it is really worth while. I regret we didn't know all that before."
Z. R. (27 years, male)
"Because of some childhood traumas, or because of a
routine and harmless operation on the penis in the youth, it was not so
good with girls as I wanted. During the first few minutes it would be
all right, but then the erection started to weaken and it would remain
half-stiff until the end. The doctors said everything is all right with
me, but why isn't it stiff, they shrugged their shoulders. It was not
easy for me to come to Tantra consultations. But it was worth while as I
saw later. As I didn't have a girlfriend, I had to do the individual
exercises. I had a firm erection after a few weeks already, and I could
maintain it for 45 minutes. I felt warmth in the groins, and a powerful
energy influx along the back up to the head during my practice.
Sometimes I feel that stream of energy also throughout the day. Now I am
much more self-assured in communication, and I think that it was this
extra energy which helped me to pass a lot of difficult exams lately.
Tantra awoke my interest for many other spiritual practices, because I
see that everything is just a matter of exercise and work on
oneself."
Z. S. (32 years, male)
"Now I see that I had quite a usual young people's
problem, and that it's a shame that nowadays you can't get advice
anywhere on how to solve it. Actually, there is Tantra now, but I regret
all that time that is gone by, and I feel sorry for all those boys who
don't know it yet. To cut the story short, I always used to come too
quickly. Meeting a girl used to drive me so much, that it would often
happen already before I have time to penetrate or immediately after
that. And so nothing came out of it. I was ashamed. I started avoiding
girls, lest to disgrace myself. I became withdrawn and somehow too
indulgent. I must say that Tantra was a turning point in my life. I was
best able to see it when I took part in the operation "Storm".
We were in the rear lines, but the other guys were still afraid to go
out on the sentinel and were getting drunk. I had to stimulate and
encourage them, and then I realized I was different, resolute and
self-assured. I haven't yet found a suitable girl, but now I'm sure I
will perform the task properly."
E. T. (40 years, male)
"For me personally Tantra really was the
integration of all the aspects of my nature. From my early youth I had
spiritual aspirations, and somehow it seemed it went without saying that
it can't be harmonized with sexual desires. I had already learned that
sex was something low and unworthy of serious occupation. Although
frequent masturbation in teenage years were a kind of a refuge and a
fancied pleasure, later it seemed to me that they were the real reason
of my reticence and social insecurity. Having set off on the
"spiritual journey", I violently repressed my sexuality, but
it didn't make me more communicative and sociable. Only after many
years, due to a spiritual crisis, did I dare to consider other
possibilities. Tantra offered closeness to people and promised the
growth through sexuality. That idea came up just timely and immediately
rendered me enthusiastic. After the first sexual intercourse's done
according to Tantra principles, I felt I mastered both worlds. I was a
master of both the material and spiritual world. I felt strong and great
and close to the Self after a Tantra intercourse. Sexual desires which I
used to experience as something hostile, something that torments me
until I give up and begin to feel guilty and miserable as a sign of my
still so imperfect nature, now they became overnight the opportunity to
raise myself still higher towards the Divine. Having accepted Tantra and
my sexuality I felt that all energies existing in me were united, that
there were no more inner conflicts, that everything was leading me to
the One same Goal. It was a wonderful transformation, and soon it has
become a part of normality. What is constantly continuing and is always
a source of a new enthusiasm, are always growing energy experiences
during Tantra intercourse. I experienced plenty of meditative
techniques, asanas and pranayamas, Sidhi techniques and many others,
trying to purify my awareness, to comprehend my deeper nature. Now I can
confidently say the experience of ecstasy reached by Tantra
intercourse's surpasses everything I had ever experienced. I feel that
being close to another human being, with the energy of our another half
is the real way to awaken to the self, to the Life and to the World, to
be masters of all the Universes."
R. F. (35 years, male)
"Out of curiosity I came with my wife to the
introductory lecture on Tantra, and then I decided to have a personal
consultation. We thought we didn't have any problems with sex, except
that we used to be separated for several months due to the nature of my
job, but we wanted to know something more. Listening to the lecture and
then, on the consultation, I was astonished, having realized that much
more was possible than what most people did and what was thought to be
normal. I could hold out for ten minutes in the penetration and I
thought it was quite satisfying. Of course, it was only sleep that I had
in mind after the intercourse, but it also seemed normal to me. During
the consultation, my wife declared that such behavior disturbed her, but
never before I thought that anything else was possible. I behaved as I
felt. That evening, immediately after consultation, my wife and I wanted
to experience everything we heard and learnt. I managed to prolong the
coitus to 40 minutes, and in the end I had the most powerful orgasm I
have ever experienced. Besides, for the first time in my life I was not
sleepy after the intercourse. I was vigorous and alert, satisfied with
my success and continued talking to my wife and watched TV. It was
really a completely new experience. I am very satisfied with the initial
results, and I would like to achieve this famous orgasm without
ejaculation. I think it is worth while to practice a little for the sake
of that. Sex has become a completely new field of research."
J. S. (20 years, female)
"Since my early adolescence I have been practicing
different methods of self-improvement. I often had wonderful
experiences, but always asked myself, "What does it mean to
experience bliss?" Is there really something so strong and
ecstatic, that my skeptic mind could name as the experience of supreme
enjoyment? When I suddenly found myself in the arms of a Tantra (a
partner who gained mastery over Tantra sexual art), there was an
explosion, the complete turning point - I EXPERIENCED THE SUPREME
ECSTASY! There were no more doubts; I understood what the bliss was.
From the moment he penetrated in me for the first time I felt the waves
of warm nectar overwhelming my body and permeating it with sweetness. In
every new intercourse I had more and more ecstatic experiences. I was
totally lost and the only thought I was able to think in the pauses
between orgasms was "that's the best day in my life". Now
every day is the best. In the intercourse I experience the streaming of
energy through the body, strong vibrations in the chakras, especially in
the heart and head. I feel the energy that the partner managed to
transform and to raise flowing from him to me. When our bodily movements
are gentle the streaming is also very gentle, the warmth permeates every
tiny part of my body, and it seems to have lost its boundaries. In the
dynamic love play, the partner's strokes stimulate the bottom of my
spine, the seat of kundalini energy, vagina and rump vibrate strongly in
one rhythm, every stroke creates an energy lightening, rising abruptly
along the spine. We have the best experiences while resting. When our
bodies are completely settled we experience a powerful column of light
growing from legs to head and filling us with the feeling of supreme
ecstasy. Such a common orgasm we have several times in each intercourse.
Life with Tantra is life in permanent bliss. The whole day is an endless
Tantra relationship with the partner and the union comes as a
spontaneous continuing and intensification of that endless enjoyment.
Tantra never has an end. That's a constant bubbling and expansion of
enjoyment and love, when you feel being the strongest and happiest
person in the world, and your partner is your king, your Teacher and
God, the eternal "source of a common love ecstasy."
V. C. (32 years, female)
"I have been practicing Tantra exercises for women
for about one year. My menstrual cycle had been quite irregular, with
pre-menstrual disturbances. Emotional instability, nervousness,
excessive sensibility, pressure in the head, ill humor, was the symptoms
noticeable already in the middle of the cycle. All that was more intense
during one or two days before menstruation, with pains and spasms. Owing
to regular practice the problem was gradually solved. Soon my cycle
became a monthly cycle in the very sense of the word. Physical troubles
were reduced to a minimum and the psychic instabilities became just a
memory. Now it looks so: the interval between two menstruations is
longer and the menstruation itself lasts shorter (1-2 days), (it is not
out of pathologic reasons, but according to the theory of the practice).
More energy, vitality and harmony throughout the day. The genitals and
the body as a whole are strengthened. Concerning sexual experiences with
the Tantra techniques: experiencing myself more deeply, on the finer
energy levels, at the same time feeling permeating with the partner,
with what surrounds me, leads me in a broader and broader way towards
unity with all the cosmos. Inner harmony, happiness, and bliss are side
effects. My former genital orgasm has turned into energizing and
vitalizing of the whole body. Awakened sexual energy enriches my life
from day to day, bringing love harmony, refined sexuality, emotional
stability, self-respect, understanding of others and of events around
me."
E.G. (39 years, male)
"I didn't think I had any problems in my sexual
life and it seemed to me that women were satisfied with me. But I would
often feel exhausted and empty after the intercourse, and for the next
several days women used to get on my nerves, although my partner wanted
more. One of the unexpected cognition about myself that I got on the
seminar was that I have only few times in my life experienced the real
orgasm. Until that I thought that the ejaculation was just that. I could
count on my fingers the experiences when I had a feeling of an energy
rise and a sort of ecstasy. Urged by the seminar I decided to practice
in order to achieve the orgasm without ejaculation. Since the very
beginning of the practice I was satisfied in the sense that I would feel
like a lion when I was with my partner. The intercourse would last and
last and she would watch me astonished - how long shall I keep on - and
I knew I could keep on forever. It was a fantastic feeling. It seemed to
me I could make love with battalions of women and I felt like screaming
out of delight and power. When we would finally separate from each other
I felt as if on top of the world. It was wonderful to be walking later
through the town and to know that I would be able to satisfy all these
women pressing around me. After a few months of the praxis, I started to
feel, several times during one intercourse, powerful energy glows,
starting from soles and ending somewhere above my head. This feeling
would appear when I was on the edge of ejaculation, and then, through
exercise, managed to redirect this impulse. I would feel the charge
rising, like the electric charge, spreading in the form of stronger and
stronger goose pimples and vibrations from legs over my back and belly.
It would rise along the back up to my head and turn into a state of
ecstasy and an enormous feeling of being overwhelmed by boundless
happiness, and, I would say, by light. At once I would feel I was
breathing the air, and only then I would realize that I hadn't been
breathing all this time. My partner used to tell me after that I was
looking like a god. She would also start to feel this burst and an
energy rise, as soon as it would start in me. According to her
descriptions, she seems to have even more fantastic experiences than I
do. She says she's sometimes lost in infinity, and feels a state of
unity. Such experiences become more and more often lately. The
intercourse is always new and interesting, and what is the most
important, I can always have more!" |
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